Autistic Hedgehog

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Mar 3

I recently found your blog and I find that I can relate to almost all of the submissions. I looked it up and I have a lot of the common signs of being autistic. I'm 16 and haven't been diagnosed with it, but I'm starting to wonder... Then again, it could just be my mild hypochondria kicking in... I still would like to bring it up with my parents/psych. Any tips?

If you really relate to a lot of things here, and you’re really wondering, there’s nothing wrong with that. It is a good thing to research as much as you can, especially if you want to bring it up with your parents and/or psychiatrist.

If you do have some hypochondria, then it’s good if you have a firm grasp on why you feel this way before you bring it up. Don’t be afraid to write down the things you relate to before you talk to anyone about it, so you don’t forget what you want to say if you get flustered. I imagine with hypochondria, you could easily face people being dismissive of you about this, so organization is important. Do your best to make sure they understand you did a lot more than just glance at a list of symptoms.

Unfortunately, no matter who you are, an autism diagnosis is a subject that it can be very hard to get into with a lot of parents and psychiatrists. There’s a lot of ignorance about what autism even is. If they point out that you’re already sixteen, let them know that a lot of people are still diagnosed quite late in life. If they think autistic people aren’t capable of speaking, point out that autism is a spectrum with many different symptoms, and mutism is only one of them that not all of us have. Your best shot is to know as much as you can.

Even if they won’t listen, if you feel strongly about this, that’s okay. We will listen. There’s always support to be found here and AH and in the community in general.